The first photo I took of a margarine lid left inside a margarine tub was a Clover margarine lid and tub (see Fig I).

They decided that they would be incrementally better of if the margarine tub in this photo were were a Strok margarine lid and tub instead of a Clover. As soon as they decided they wanted it to be Stork as far as the group was concerned it was a fact that it was Stork, despite the fact it was obviously Clover!!!!

It is obvious that it is Clover: The inside of a Clover lid is yellow, while the inside of a Stork lid is white. The bottom edge of a Clover tub is curved, while the bottom edge of a Stork tub is straight. As you can see from the photo, the tab of the lid is on the right side with Clover and on the left side with Stork.

I pointed all of this out to them but they still tried to convince themselves that it is Stork and they spent months driving me around the bend by trying to bullying me into saying that the it is Stork.

I even went to both my doctors about it and they both said that's yellow and the other one is white. That bottom edge is curved and the other bottom edge is straight.




In the end I said "Whatever, I'll do their barmy margarine "idea" with a Stork margarine lid and tub".

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This isn't an isolated incident, they keep doing this - they keep trying to maintain that they are right when it is blatantly obvious that they are wrong!



Ordeal (added 09/08/2025):

Refusing to acknowledge blatantly obviuos facts amounts to gaslighting and constitutes psychological abuse. The significant consequences on an individual's mental health and well-being from having gone through such an experience cannot be overstated. Bullying leads to feelings of anxiety, distress, and depression, and even post-traumatic stress. It has breed fear and insecurity that affect my ability to have any trust others and feel safe in social environments.

Understanding the gravity of this situation is crucial.